For the sake of this
article, “I” am anyone you might encounter.
A few of you (likely a
very few) are probably very excited by the Christmas décor up in stores and
Christmas music playing on the radio. The rest of you are probably disgusted by
the retailers shoving Christmas in your face before Thanksgiving and I have
heard chorus upon chorus of “it’s too early” where the Christmas music is concerned.
Christmas – and the
holiday season as a whole – will be different for me this year.
Perhaps I’m already
joyfully listening to Christmas carols.
Perhaps I won’t listen
to them at all.
Perhaps I will have
all of my Christmas decorations up by this weekend.
Perhaps I won’t
decorate this year.
Perhaps I will take
great delight in every ounce of festivity I’m subjected to.
Perhaps I will be a scrooge
at every turn.
Perhaps I will say
Merry Christmas to everyone I see.
Perhaps I will be the
refrain of Bah Humbug.
Perhaps I will attend
every party, gathering, and event I can find.
Perhaps I will stay at
home, grateful to be by myself.
Perhaps I will have
myself a Happy Hallothankmas.
Perhaps I will boycott
all three.
Perhaps decorating now
gives me the opportunity to prepare myself for the onslaught of emotions.
Perhaps there is no
amount of time that could prepare me.
Perhaps I am waiting
for Christmas as a reminder that life goes on.
Perhaps I am dreading
Christmas because it’s a reminder that life goes on.
Perhaps… I’m somewhere
in the middle.
Please, be slow to
judge me. Maybe you know what I’ve gone through this year. Maybe you don’t.
Maybe you know me intimately and personally. Maybe I’m just that happy / cranky
shopper you see in the store. Please, be slow to judge me. Christmas for me will
be different this year. Give me a moment to explain.
This year… I lost my mom / dad
I lost my husband / wifeI lost my sister / brother
I lost my son / daughter
I lost my grandmother / grandfather
I got divorced
I lost my job
I moved away from my whole family and won’t be home for Christmas this year
I / my loved one was diagnosed with a terminal illness
For a moment, just for
a moment, lay down the commercialism that Christmas brings to the stores. Take
a moment and stop assuming that people that enjoy Christmas aren’t thankful
because they become “festive” before Thanksgiving. As Christians, Christmas is
one of the days that we are MOST thankful. Christmas symbolizes the birth of
our Savior. For so many, Christmas means so much more than the songs on the
radio and the displays in the store. Christmas represents memories – perhaps memories
are all that is left. Actually shouldn’t we “feel” Christmas all year long?
Instead of focusing on the commercialism of Christmas, focus on the love.
Please… be slow to
judge me. Christmas will be different for me this year.
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